It’s a busy day here in Boystown.
Last night, we all went to the Chicago Takes Off benefit for TPAN, The Test Positive Awareness Network, an organization that raises awareness of the risks of HIV/AIDS and helps those living with the virus cope and fight their battles as best they can. It’s a very worthy cause we want to become more involved in going forward. One of our good friends in Philadelphia is Positive, and we’ve been volunteering the last year or so doing whatever we can to help people with HIV we know on a personal level. But, we want to do more, so expect to hear more about TPAN and other charities here in Chicago in the future. We knew several of the dancers who donated their time and talent to dance in Chicago Takes Off last night, which was themed “TV Outside the Box”.
Here are some photos via ChicagoPride.
We’re working on a full recap of the night, for those of you who’ve never been to a big, high-production quality, extravaganza of a fundraiser in the LGBTQ community…let alone a burlesque show like Broadway Bares or Chicago Takes Off. Since we know many of the people who staged, coreographed, managed, and danced in the event, we hope it will be a fun tale for you to read…as soon as we can get together, sit down, and write up our notes from last night.
Which is hard today because it’s Oscar Night, which is another of the High Gay Holidays here in Boystown. We’re going to an Oscar-themed costume party, where no doubt absolutely no one will get what we’re dressed as, which is always the case. Everyone will, of course, adore what Panda is wearing and will “get” his costume immediately, no matter how obscure it ends up being. ”Oooooh, I get it, you are Key Grip #2 from the set of “The Hurt Locker”. Verrrrrrrry clever, Mr. Panda!”. That sort of praise, and instant applause, for holding a key in his hand (gripping it, really), with a Band-Aid on his finger, carrying a little combination lock.
We’re exaggerating slightly, and have no idea what Panda’s going to wear tonight, but it really is amazing how well he can pull off just about any outfit and totally sell it to a crowd. You should have seen him as Mr. Belvedere last night at Chicago Takes Off. But, more on that later.
As for the Oscars, we’re rooting for Sandra Bullock for Best Actress, Monique for Best Supporting Actress, and we hope Avatar doesn’t win Best Picture. We’re wondering what the crowd’s response will be to Michael Jackson when clips of him are aired during the “Dead Celebrities” montage, which will be the last of the “Michael Jackson Tributes” we’ll see for a while. Will the audience go nuts and cheer, or will it be as muted as the rest of the applause for those who passed since the last Academy Awards? Panda’s still wearing his black arm band in memory of “MJ”, but some of us think he’s just hiding a wart or something on that elbow. It wouldn’t be the first time.
We really don’t care about the Best Actor awards, and dread the political speeches many of the winners will no doubt make…but wonder just how political anyone will get seeing everyone in attendance, for the most part, at the Kodak Theater voted for Dr. Utopia and should be thrilled with the Golden Age of Hope and Change in which we are living. If they aren’t, then we doubt they will say anything about it on TV, the way they used their once-in-a-lifetime chance to speak directly to billions to criticize President Bush repeatedly through eight years.
If we had a chance to speak to that large of an audience for 45 seconds, there’s no way we’d say anything bad about anyone, no matter how terrible they are. We wouldn’t read a list of names on the air either. Instead, we’d ask all the people watching what they do after they leave a movie theater in which they sat quietly with strangers for two hours in the dark. Do you ever try to meet any of those people you shared that experience with? Do you go out into the world and interact with those around you and try to be as excellent to one another as you can? Do you find the things you share in common and embrace them, instead of focusing on the things that divide you, or the minor disagreements on certain issues the MSM exploits to keep us forever engaged in culture wars, never accomplishing anything because we’re so divided all the time.
Movies are great. Sometimes. Getting involved in your community, meeting your neighbors, organizing like-minded people to stand up to government encroachment in our lives and the radical Leftist takeover of the country is more important. Always.
We try to communicate this here on our little site every day. If we had 45 seconds to talk directly to the world, we guarantee we wouldn’t squander that chance to pump people up as much as we could to hit the ground running the next day to do some good. Volunteer with the USO. Start helping TPAN or another charity you like in your home town. Knock on the neighbors’ doors and meet them and see if they need any help with anything. DO SOMETHING. It’s fun to sit in the dark and watch movies once in a while. Movies are part of the pop culture that unites us, as they’re things all of us will typically see no matter who we are, or what we think about other things.
Just imagine if we could somehow use a love of watching movies to form a bridge to discover what else we all have in common, instead of falling into the MSM trap of focusing on what sets us apart.
What would you say if you had the chance to speak at something as huge as the Academy Awards, with 45 seconds of live speech before billions?
What would you want to communicate, how would you put it, and how would you best use your time?
March 7, 2010 at 4:57 pm
I wish you guys lived near me. I could use help all the time around my house!
Seriously, I just wish you guys WOULD get a national mic to make a statement just like that!
I really have come to a point in my life where I really HATE entertainment awards shows. I just think these people get enough recognition 24/7, 365 days a year. Do they really need another pat on the back for a job well done? The millions of dollars they earn getting to play dress-up and “pretend” in front of a camera isn’t enough?
Meh…I’m officially old and cruminginy (sp?) I guess.
Having said all that, I work for one of the largest media companies in the world, so I do like to see our animated movies do well. And since I absolutely LOVED LOVED LOVED “Up”, I will hope it at least wins “Best Animated Feature” and how awesome it would be if it won best picture (although I think it doesn’t have a snowball chance in heck in doing so).
All the while, I’ll still just be folding laundry like I do every Sunday night.
March 7, 2010 at 5:23 pm
Hey, is the Amazing Race on tonight? I don’t want to miss that.
Oscars?
Whatever.
March 7, 2010 at 9:15 pm
I’ll be skipping the Hollywood Incest Fest. (“Love you!” “Oh, love you too sweetie!” Kissy, kissy, smooch, smooch.)
Never could stand the Academy Awards. Even as a little kid I thought it was lame, boring and way too damn long.
March 7, 2010 at 5:32 pm
not watching oscars , I do hope the lady from Precious wins,
OT:
“Kathy Griffin: Sarah Palin Performed Sex Act on John McCain ”
ya know, I used to love her stand up show, now I see she is just another fking lunatic like Bill Maher.
what a sad sad person, very pathetic.
March 7, 2010 at 9:26 pm
Kathy Griffin’s bio is a good read in perseverance, but she needs to stay away from hateful politics and stick with making fun of faux celebrities like Paris Hilton and Levi Johnson !
I spent $125 to see Maher on Broadway a few years ago, loved him then, wish I could get my money back now :(
March 7, 2010 at 11:10 pm
Sorry, there are very few people that I would say this about but Griffin is an unfully skank with a side of mean.
March 7, 2010 at 11:11 pm
Sorry, that would be ‘unfunny’.
March 7, 2010 at 5:40 pm
For the first time in a long time I am NOT watching the Oscars. The LA news creatures absolute PANIC over the possibility that it MIGHT rain on the red carpet (HORROR!) just drove me over the edge. It was the leading news story last night. Seriously? Seriously?? A 17 year old was murdered in San Diego and another teen is still missing, hundreds died in Chile and buildings continue to crumble…but god forbid it sprinkle on the stars!!
Phew, ok done venting. I REALLY need to get out of LA.
March 7, 2010 at 8:30 pm
That would set me off too…I’m just so tired of it. And I used to be the biggest FAN of all things Hollywood. I still think I was born about 40 years too late…when people like Jimmy Stewart and Grace Kelly were stars…that’s what I like to remember Hollywood to be…a true reflection of America. Not this indoctrination/propaganda heaped with a huge plateful of self-indulgence. Makes me ill.
March 7, 2010 at 9:31 pm
Yes!! I agree. I used to live in the Whitley Heights area, which is where much of old Hollywood used to call home. LOVED living there, it felt like living in a great part of history, when stars were known for their work and not for going to rehab or flashing their hoo-has to the press.
March 7, 2010 at 10:15 pm
I use to love the Oscars! Planned parties for watching them, the whole nine yards! I didn’t even realize they were on until two days ago! Just over the shallowness of it all and the fact that the movies and the stars campaign for votes.
March 7, 2010 at 11:48 pm
Yup. I’ve had it up to here with people do nonessential stuff all year long, then getting together to tell each other how wonderful they were as they did, give each other awards for how wonderful they were, and LET the rest of us watch them give each other awards. Talk about childish self-absorption.
March 7, 2010 at 5:51 pm
Doubt I’ll be watching it either. Not out of protest – simply because I’m tired of Hollywood continually patting themselves on the back for being such fabulous people who care so much. How about they mail out the awards and donate the money they’re spending on production and put it into a scholarship fund for children of fallen soldiers. You know – those people who put their lives on the line so that Hollywood can have the freedom to say what they want and play pretend at being soldiers.
If some company came out and said “We were going to buy ad time at the Oscars, but instead we’re donating the money to XYZ soldiers charity” – I’d rush out and buy whatever product they sell.
March 7, 2010 at 5:52 pm
Sorry – but Sean Penn really opened his mouth way to close to the Oscars.
March 7, 2010 at 6:51 pm
me 2!
March 7, 2010 at 6:07 pm
If I had 45 seconds to give a speech at the Oscars because I had won something, I would probably encourage other people to keep working at their creative projects, and give one of those “because if I can win won of these so can you” type speeches. I always enjoy it when folks encourage others who are struggling along in the trenches.
But I won’t be watching the Oscars because I find them really boring, and never see any of the movies that are nominated. Having said that I hope the girl from Precious wins, the girl who played Precious, because her work was so genius (what I saw of it in the trailer), and freaked me out, she was just too good, it just popped out at me. And I thought, ‘there is NO WAY I’m going to see that movie. It’s too real.’ So I hope that girl wins, because she was really something. And I didn’t even see the movie. Just the trailer. And she affected me that much. Am still traumatized from the trailer.
March 7, 2010 at 6:11 pm
Even with 10 nominees for Best Picture, I still haven’t seen any of them !
Red Carpet up on E! now. The ladies are already there in their gowns. None will be as beautiful as our FLOTUS (snorts and giggles).
March 7, 2010 at 6:32 pm
I agree with the Boyz and would really like to see Sandra Bullock win.
She’s not only an amazing actress (not just in the serious stuff, but she’s great comedically as well. Some of her scenes in Miss Congeniality were a scream.) but a really good person. Immediately after the tsunami in Indonesia a few years ago, she donated $1 million of her own money to the relief effort. Quietly.
She also seems to have a solid marriage which is such a rare thing in Hollyweird.
Other than Sandra and that Avatar doesn’t win, I don’t give a flying flip about the rest.
March 7, 2010 at 6:47 pm
Bullock also donated a mil to Haiti relief. She also adopts special needs pets. Lovely person and I can watch While You Were Sleeping over and over !
March 7, 2010 at 8:33 pm
I LOVE “While You Were Sleeping”…one of my all-time favorites to watch at Christmas time. Love Bill Pullman in that too.
March 7, 2010 at 8:38 pm
Denise and G8rMom7, thanks for the tip about WYWS!
I haven’t seen it, but I will NOW. For some reason I thought that Meg Ryan was in it. Didn’t realize it was Sandra. Duh!
Now I’m looking forward to it!
March 7, 2010 at 9:27 pm
Meg Ryan and Kevin Kline in French Kiss…delish !
March 7, 2010 at 9:34 pm
I really like Sandra Bullock too, I’m rooting for her. The Blind Side was an incredible story and she played the character in an honest way…didn’t make this incredible woman a caricature of the typical Southern woman.
March 7, 2010 at 7:03 pm
I’m not watching the “awards” either but we don’t usually watch them anyway even though my husband do like to go to the films. However we haven’t seen as many in the last few months because we’ve been busy doing other things. I have to agree with previous comments that the awards are many times boring.
However if I had 45 seconds to talk and reach a large audience that seems to attract the Oscars, I think I would first thank all those who saw the movie or intend to see it as well as fellow co-workers because making a really good film is a team effort.
The second thing I would tell the audience is that each and every single one of them has some gift, some talent to share with others that will make their corner of the world (whatever or wherever that may be) a little bit better place to be and when they get out there and do “it” even if they receive little or no worldly recognition, they too are “Oscar winners”.
March 7, 2010 at 7:37 pm
I am watching Gone with the Wind tonight.
I dont watch the Oscars anymore… I just dont care.
I hope Colin Firth wins best actor but I doubt he will. He is my fav. actor.
March 7, 2010 at 7:53 pm
I havent watched the Oscars in ages. I have had a time crunch over the past 10 years so Ihave seen few movies that get nominated in time to enjoy the spectacle. When I finally see mvies they have been edited for time and content ahahahaha.
If I had 45 seconds to talk to the world I would say please lets try silence for just a tiny moment. No talking, no advertising, no noise…just a moment of internal solitude.
When you can be alone with yourself quietly and enjoy it then you are ready to be good friends, neighbors and citizens.
Today a female service member dropped off her two cats. I shall be their foster-owner for almost 2 years since she is being assigned overseas and cannot take them. Me or the shelter, which really means me or most-likely death in 10 days. My ’cause’ is soldiers angels but I would love to hear from others and you hillbuzz about your charities and causes. Giving keeps getting bigger and bigger once you start. It may be just a bit of time to help one, then next you know it is a group, then several groups….it is great!!! :D
I was told about a blog, the modern equivalent of MASH surgeons in Afghaistan, I am going to post the link and hope you do not mind hill buzz. The Dr. is pretty funny and he has many pics. The mountains of afghanistan are breathtaking and the work the Med teams do is breathtaking as well.
http://www.fastsurgeon.blogspot.com
I am looking forward to your post about last night and i hope you all have a great night tonite.
March 7, 2010 at 9:43 pm
How wonderfully kind of you! Being an animal lover, and a great aunt of a Marine in service, I thank you for what you are doing.
March 7, 2010 at 8:23 pm
I’ve been watching the red carpet show[s] and am having a lovely time rating the gowns, hairstyles, jewelry.
I’ll watch the start of the awards show because there’s always something unique to each one. Then it gets tiring with people I’ve never heard of listing 15 people to thank that I’ve never heard of. I understand it is the highlight of their lives/careers and they will make gazillions of dollars because of their win – and I wish them all well and am truly happy for them…but as far as a show…it can be tedious.
You are right Hillbuzz…too many of the “stars” have too much to say about things they know little about. I don’t care to hear entertainers tell me how to think and/or vote.
Bless you for your uplifting and inspiring thought process about what you would say if you had the privilege of speaking to the millions watching. And thank you for the volunteering you do for those who need love and compassion.
I guess I’ll tune in later to see the if any of my favorites got the “big” awards.
March 7, 2010 at 8:44 pm
My husband has them on, and actually it’s pretty fun to watch with soon-to-be comedian (5 year old daughter). When they showed Jeff Bridges, she said “is he a pirate or something?”. So this may be entertaining after all.
March 7, 2010 at 9:03 pm
Yay, “Up” won! Whew. And of course, just the sound of the music makes me tear up. Then the guy says to his family that they are the “greatest adventure” and I lose it. Love that film.
March 7, 2010 at 9:19 pm
just found out that channel 7 in NY which had gone blank(dispute with cablevision) is now showing the oscars..i’ll NOT be watching, and hopw they all got wet!
March 7, 2010 at 9:37 pm
Did that lady just cut the black guy off for the Music from Prudence film or whatever? That was kind of weird. I should probably actually watch or turn off, I suppose.
March 7, 2010 at 9:47 pm
Just who was that woman anyway? I cringed when I saw her so rudely interrupt the speech. Hubby switched channels because it was just so embarrassing.
March 7, 2010 at 9:41 pm
If I had 45 seconds…I would dedicate my award to the hundreds of films and actors who are so much better yet never receive the attention or studio backing to make it to the Oscar stage. It’s those people, the people that sincerely love what they do (minus all of the free clothes, big houses, and fancy cars) that should challenge every A list “star” to be a better actor and a better representative of the industry.
March 7, 2010 at 9:49 pm
I’m watching because I want to see this dance group that is really, really innovative in their dance routines. They were at TED, so I checked out some of their videos. Wow. Name starts with “L” but can’t remember the rest.
March 7, 2010 at 10:22 pm
nope
March 7, 2010 at 10:33 pm
Not to seem “raaaacisst” or anything, but those audience shots are really “white”. Must be the Tea Partiers ! :D
March 7, 2010 at 11:15 pm
I only half heartedly watched them as a teenager, I don’t bother now. As someone already said, the rest of the year is a self-congratulating ego fest for these folks, this is just more of the same.
Too much ego in one room for me. I used to do a LOT of films, now only rarely. It has to really float my boat to be interested in it. Lots of shlock and not a lot of substance anymore.
March 7, 2010 at 11:39 pm
The guy who won for the musical score for “Up” said something along the lines of what some of you have said…he mentioned about how his parents, teachers, etc. never told him what he was doing was a waste of time. And he said, to all of you kids out there that may not have the support system I did, I will tell you…whatever creative thing you’re doing is not a waste of time.
That didn’t bother me too much.
Overall, I think the Obama presidency is definitely noticed. Hardly any real political speak…other than the documentary about the dolphins winning…but it could have been worse.
March 8, 2010 at 12:21 am
Yay! Sandra Bullock won! Awesome!
And so did Jeff Bridges! Very cool!
For me, the best thing is that Avatar was shut out of the big awards and James Cameron’s ex-wife, Catherine Bigelow, won for director and best film.
Huge upset!
March 8, 2010 at 12:23 am
I watched / listened while working on a project. I thought it was quite well done.
March 8, 2010 at 1:38 am
Actually from what I have read…Sandra Bullock, Jeff Bridges and Bigelow did give speeches that were along those lines..the important things.. I didn’t watch because I was getting my girl ready for state testing tomorrow.. (as ready as can be), but I was also glad that Avatar didn’t win. I didn’t even go and see it..Avatar..didn’t want them having my eight bucks.
March 8, 2010 at 1:40 am
A year and “change” later and no mention of Barry or his unicorns. What’s wrong Hollywood? Now just realizing you make up the demo he and his cohorts want to tax into serfdom with the rest of us working schmos?
Loved Michele Pfeifer paying homage to Jeff Bridges and his commitment to his family. I also loved his speech thanking his late mom and father as well as his wife of 30 years and Their daughters. Same with Sandra Bullocks’ acceptance.
Maybe, just maybe, there is stony glimmer of hope that more quality films will get distribution, not just re-hashed Dances with Wolves meets Blue Man Group and gushy biopics about murderous phony folk heroes(cough cough Che cough) that no one wants to see.
March 8, 2010 at 1:56 am
Hey now…I love Dances With Wolves..one of my favorites.. :)
March 8, 2010 at 6:44 am
I saw Avatar and the hurt locker.
Not sure why hurt locker won anything… its a boring and stupid film. It wasnt a film about hating our soldiers.. which I was pleasantly surprised about. The acting is Ok but there is no plot.. at all.
Avatar is good because its so unreal. But not the acting or anything.
I was hoping my favorite actor would win, Colin Firth. But.. that wouldnt make for good tv so… whatever.
I just caught who won on the news.. had no desire to watch a bunch of overpaid ego’s fawn all over themselves.
March 8, 2010 at 9:36 am
Kristi, that is almost exactly the same thing my husband said about “The Hurt Locker”…there was nothing to it all…no plot. Good acting.
March 8, 2010 at 7:00 am
Must have just killed those turkeys. The woman who won Best Director thanked our military when she won her award. And wished them home safely.
And when The Hurt Locker (her film) won Best Film, they brought her back onstage.
And she thanked the U.S. soldiers AGAIN!
heh…good for her!
March 8, 2010 at 8:33 am
Dana, I saw that and thought it was an unusually classy moment.
When she came up the second time, not only did she thank the military again, but she added EVERYBODY working in uniform to ‘protect us’…firemen, etc.
It must have driven the Libs crazy. HA!
I love that she is James Cameron’s ex-wife and mopped the floor with him and his stupid blue-man flick.
March 8, 2010 at 12:12 pm
James Cameron is a wife beater.
I won’t even RENT Avatar because I don’t want that man to get ONE PENNY from me.
March 8, 2010 at 7:33 am
I was glad to see that they didn’t open their pie-holes about the health care bill or any other political nonsense. Of course, they NEVER missed a chance to bash Bush. The silence speaks volumes to me. And did they forget the people of Haiti? Guess that was soooo last month.
I love theater, but just get too riled up about the hypocrisy. This crowd is always slamming “the evils of capitalism”, yet don’t see that they get paid more for one film than I will make in my lifetime, or that their outfit cost more than my car. Apparently the irony that we can’t AFFORD their product because of their evil profits is lost on them.
I love Sandra Bullock as a person(seems to be a normal person) and I’m happy for her…but any number of actresses could’ve played that part well. No one could have nailed Julia Child like Meryl Streep. And yes…very thankful that Avatar(and James Cameron’s ego)got knocked down a peg. It was liberal propaganda AND not really “acting”. Not that I have an opinion or anything LOL!
March 8, 2010 at 7:45 am
Can’t say I have much use for Hollywood anymore. Their anti-Americanism generally is disappointing. I am much more interested in learning about our real heroes — our soldiers — than about these people.
March 8, 2010 at 8:32 am
What could we do to volunteer? Here’s
an idea that hit me years ago.
Our country has been living in fear for years. Spoon fed by the media that we might get shot or attacked whenever we venture outdoors. Night after night after night on the local and national news, and in print for the few that still purchase it.
Our country is also the fattest on the planet. Having most communities set up to require a car to get damn near anywhere
ads substantially to this. I can always spot someone from europe before they open their mouth: they’re the thin persons in the group.
Soooo…. why not kill two birds with one stone? Start walking with your neighbors. Do so about the time that the local news is coming on with their usual “if it bleeds, it leads” coverage.
Less fear, by not having it drilled into our heads day after day after day. Less weight, better health, fewer diabetics and people ready to go on dialysis.
I know this is a pipedream, but what better revenge against these bastards then to be unafraid and healthy?
March 8, 2010 at 9:21 am
My neighbors and I had a walking club all last summer and fall. We had to end it when the sidewalks got icey and the wind chill was zero. We are about to start it again. It’s great fun. Keeping the weight off doesn’t work so well when you end the walk with a nice glass of wine, on the porch,in summer, finishing that great conversation you had started……….
March 8, 2010 at 9:32 am
There’s many other benefits.
It’s a dandy way to hold down the crime in your area, as you begin to see comings and goings that don’t ad up. The walkers in my neighborhood clean up surface litter, and call codes on people parking on their lawns.
The biggest benefit I see is that when those in charge that don’t care about others start seeing large numbers of people associating, they begin to get nervous. Works even better if the group’s diverse.
In the liberal domed city where I used to live (Decatur, GA), we used to give the city leaders fits with our neighborhood group at meetings.
There was the white guy that’s writing this, a middle aged black woman from down the street, a gay male couple from the house across the street, and, occasionally, the lesbian couple that lived in the house behind my wife and I. It drove the city comission plain nuts that they couldn’t play devide and conquer between us.
March 8, 2010 at 10:20 am
I didn’t watch the “awards” last night. Sounds like there was a different direction taken last night. I’m so glad Jeff Bridges and Sandra Bullock both won “Oscars”. I haven’t seen their movies yet, I’m definitely going to make time to see them.
I haven’t seent “The Hurt Locker” either but again I’m glad that the director won an “Oscar” too. I did see “Avatar” and thought the special effects were amazing but the plot was undisguised propaganda and juvenile. However, to be quite honest I wasn’t that impressed with Cameron’s “Titanic” either. Yes, the attention to actual events such as the sinking of the ship in “real time” and the ship’s orchestra playing, I believe “Nearer My God to Thee”, as the ship sank, the recreation of the Edwardian splendor of the real Titanic, and the costuming of the ship’s passengers as well as crew members was truly extraordinary. For that Cameron deserved accolades. But the romantic sub-plot between the two leading characters rang false and seemed a little too “modern”. Also, and I know I’m going to be hammered for this, I didn’t like the theme music for the movie – too modern sounding. My favorite music was the Irish “ceili” music that was played in the scenes when the crew members were having a party. It was brief but extremely well done and had the look and feel of authenticity.