As Americans, we currently do not have a First Lady we can be proud of — instead, we have a woman who fashions herself a style icon, proud of her country for the first time in her adult life only because she’s being lavished more attention, riches, and power than she ever dreamed of.  Since there is no permanent head of state in this country, the First Family assumes that role, collectively, whether they are prepared for it or not.  Some First Ladies have been spectacular in their duties:  Laura Bush, Hillary Clinton, Barbara Bush, Jackie Kennedy, Eleanor Roosevelt, Frances Cleveland, Grace Coolidge, Dolly Madison, Abigail Adams, and other great First Ladies from the past. 

We neither have, nor want, a royal family in America, no matter how much the Kennedy Family pretends otherwise. But the hit-or-miss roulette we play every four years with the people who live in the White House makes us appreciate those countries that enjoy dignified continuity, and are spared from suffering through four years’ of bare arms, strange sweater sets, wrestling belts, and inappropriate behavior from someone who is supposed to represent the very best of the nation.  

The British are fortunate to have Queen Elizabeth II as their head of state — a woman who is proud of her country every day, who embodies class and grace, and spends every waking hour in service not just to her people, but to the very powers of good. 

One of our grandmothers worked in Britain in the leadup and early days of WWII. Whenever any of you out there attack Queen Elizabeth or spit venom at the British monarchy, we are reminded of the stories we heard as children, of King George and his family, most notably Princess Elizabeth, holding the people together and giving them the strength to endure bomb after bomb smashing against their country.  Buckingham Palace itself was bombed, during which the King and Queen were almost killed in a direct German attack.  Yet, the Windsors never fled for Canada.  They stayed firm in service to their people.  Princess Elizabeth worked as a mechanic and driver in the army.  They represented the very best of the British “Never Surrender” spirit, and we do not believe the war would have been won without them.  Winston Churchill said as much himself. Our grandmother taught us to respect the Queen for all she stands for, and admire her for the love she has for her country and her people. 

The Queen’s Christmas Message was always a tradition in our homes growing up, because of the immense respect our very American families have for Her Majesty, the Queen.  It is immensely difficult to live an entire lifetime in the glare of the spotlight, forever having to be perfect every minute of the day, knowing you physically embody the character and spirit of your nation.  We respect Her Majesty immensely…especially this last year without someone of similar patriotism and love of country occupying the ceremonial and representative role our own culture has created for the First Lady. 

Class vs. Crass

Can you imagine what “The First Lady’s Christmas Message” would look like?  Could Mrs. Utopia stuff enough of her grievances into a 7 minute clip to warrant even a forced smile?

God save the Queen.

Heaven help us all.